Does it sometimes feel like no matter what you do, you just can’t seem to impress the lady you’re on a date with? Does she feel cold? Distant? Distinctly unimpressed? There are some traits that most women find highly unappealing.
Maybe the reason the women you went on a date with is not calling you back because, unknowingly, you too are guilty of doing something that ticked her off. Maybe you were glued to your phone throughout the date, or you kept going on and on about yourself, or maybe you drank more than you should have. Whatever the reason, it was a major turn-off for your date.
These common pitfalls can be highly off-putting for women.
1. Overconfidence
While having the right amount of confidence in your own self can be a very attractive personality trait, too much cockiness is a major turn-off for women. If you’re the type who’s overconfident to the point of discourtesy, you won’t be attracting a lot of women.
When you’re dating someone, you want to be able to get to know each other, not start listing off your accomplishments every chance you get. Try to maintain a healthy balance on the confidence scale.
2. Ill-manners
Are you chewing with your mouth open? Misbehaving with the waiters, bartenders, cashiers, etc.? Or are you throwing tantrums like a 2-year old? Chances are it’s going to be your last date with that person. No matter how great you are otherwise, bad manners are the single most unappealing thing about a person.
How you treat others around you says a lot about what kind of a person you are and if all you do is misbehave, it certainly won’t put you in a positive light. Try to be more polite and chivalrous.
3. Narcissism
Dating is a partnership, not a parade dedicated to how awesome you are. If you catch yourself being overly obsessed with yourself, stop! The woman you’re dating doesn’t want to hear you go on and on about how great you are, even if you really are that great!
Remember, a little modesty goes a long way.
4. Talking About Your Ex
This is a major deal-breaker for a lot of women. It gets them to think that if you’re still pining over your ex, then why are you on a date with them? If you’re bringing up the girl you used to date in front of the girl you are dating, it’s going to alert her that you’ve started comparing them both.
This can be a major turn-off so avoid any talk about past relationships.
5. Not Talking Enough
Dating is a two-way street not a one-man show. If you’re just sitting there nodding your head while your date does all the talking, you’re effectively conveying to her that you’re not interested one bit. Rather than stonewalling the person you’re on a date with, try to keep the conversation going.
But it doesn’t mean you have to force it, embrace the awkward silences as well.
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