It’s a common predicament: you’ve been dating for some time, everything’s peachy-perfect but you just aren’t sure if she’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
When there are millions of fish in the proverbial sea, how are you to be sure that you’ve found your irreplaceable Nemo?
No matter how much you enjoy the freedom of meeting different women every weekend, as you grow older, the whole dating process starts to get old as well. You’re more likely, then, to be on the lookout for that special someone to share the good and bad moments of life with.
But love doesn’t always happen that way. The love bug can attack you when you’re least expecting it and can turn your entire world upside down in the process. At the same time, it isn’t always easy to distinguish love from intense physical attraction that may fade with time.
Initial attraction, when the hormones are flowing and you’re willing to overlook every flaw in your partner, can lead anyone to believe that they’re in love. But if things are only going downhill from there, she might not be the one you’re looking for.
If you’re thinking of taking the next natural step in your relationship and truly deciding to get hitched for life with the woman you’re dating, here are a few signs you’re on the right track and she truly is “the one”:
Awkward Silences are a Thing of The Past
While it may be comparatively easy to find someone who you can talk to for hours on end, it is not always that easy to find someone with whom breaks in conversation aren’t awkward. When you’re comfortable just with their presence even in the quiet moments and feel no need to fill the silence with conversation, that’s when you know it’s real.
She’s Your Best Friend
Physical attraction and intimacy may be the key to keeping any relationship alive, but if that’s what your entire relationship is based on, you might want to think again about taking the next step. Physical attraction fades with time, but what keeps couples together is being able to connect on an emotional level.
If she makes you laugh, is someone you can trust with your life and secrets and is someone you want to spend all your free time with, she’s a keeper.
Everything Reminds You of Her
When you’re truly in love, you’ll know it with the way you see her in everything you daily experience. You see a yellow flower on your way while taking your dog to the park and it immediately sends you back to the time you saw her for the first time just because she had a yellow wristband on her arm!
Winning Arguments is No Longer Important
Even when you know you’re right, you’re going to be willing to swallow your pride and give in to her, no matter how absurd she’s being. Being in love doesn’t mean you lose your individuality, but rather gain the ability to focus on what’s important: you, her and your relationship. After all, at the end of the day, you need to remember that it’s you and her versus the problem, not you versus her.
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